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7-24-08:
No big news had been transpiring, thus, no updates. Gunny continues to attend
his obedience classes, and impresses people weekly. He is really being a very
good ambassador for his breed. There is no doubt that he is doing his part to
dispel the myths that the public hears so often about Pitbulls, from the news, and from uninformed individuals.
Today
there was a bit of a new development. Gunny had to go back to the vet who did
the surgery on his salivary gland. Unfortunately, it seems that Gunny’s
procedure fell in the percentage that does not cure the problem permanently. The
gland under his tongue has started to overfill again, and the swollen area under his chin (another gland) is now bigger than
it was when he first came to NMAR. It had become so big that when Gunny laid
on his back and opened his mouth, I could see the gland from his neck area poke up into the back of his mouth! Obviously, I worried about any risk of breathing problems, but at today’s appointment, out vet said
that is not very likely at all.
So,
Gunny’s vet has put in a referral to some specialists so that we can get a surgical consult. Unfortunately, the surgeons will not be working in our area until next month, and the schedulers are unable
to book appointments too far in advance. So, I am supposed to call next week
to set up an appointment for a consultation. At this point, it is looking like
there will be more surgery in Gunny’s future, just not sure what kind, at what hospital, or with which surgeon! I’m concerned about how involved and/or how risky this will be for Gunny, so
I am really looking forward to talking to the specialist. Unfortunately, I am
also worried that the word “specialist” implies a more-involved procedure, and thus a much higher bill. NMAR has
been very generous and has said that they want to pay for Gunny to get this problem straightened out once and for all. They are hoping that they will be able to pay for Gunny’s (hopefully LAST!)
surgery with some of the money that was raised for his care, but everyone is a bit worried that there just may not be enough
left over from his first two surgeries. I won’t hear for a few weeks about
the next step in Gunny’s journey, but when I do, I will let everyone know.
Thank
you again for all of your support of Gunny. It is really overwhelming to go out
in public and have people know who he is!
6-30-08: Well, if you’ve seen Gunny’s video, and if you weren’t too bleary-eyed from tears
by the end of it, you might have caught my Big Revelation. There ain’t
no way I’m going to be able to give up this dog, so I’ve left my denial behind and openly admitted that Gunny
will not be needing adoption applications afterall. He is my first attempt at
fostering, and my first “foster failure”, all in one. Apparently
foster people getting sucked in by their charges happens often enough in the world of rescue that there is an official term for it…Foster Failure! : ) But
in situations like this, failure IS a very GOOD option!
Not only has Gunny wiggled his way into my heart and the hearts of the other residents of my home (and non-resident
fixtures in my life!), he has also make it quite clear that he considers all of us HIS family and he has no desire to go live
anywhere else. After all he has been through, I just can’t stand the idea
of sending him off to even the most wonderful of homes, knowing that he will be confused about why I didn’t keep him
myself.
6-28-08: Gunny started his obedience classes yesterday.
We are working with one of my all-time favorite dog trainers, Teresa, up at the Mooresville Petsmart. Petsmart was very generous and donated Gunny’s classes. Teresa
is phenomenal and has so much experience in so many areas related to dogs. She
was invaluable when she worked with me and Oscar, and she has even given me feedback on Ozark when I brought him up there
for a visit.
Gunny
did a wonderful job, even with 6 other dogs, and 13 humans in the small training area.
I think his attention will get much better now that he is strong enough to go out in public for fieldtrips, but that
is something that needs work. It was sad to see some obvious “baggage”
that popped up from his old life. We had almost beaten his tendency to flinch
significantly when touched on the back of the neck, but that popped up again yesterday in class. I think he was nervous in that new environment, and old scars reared their ugly heads. But God bless him, that dog has NEVER shown any defensive behaviors at all, even when startled or scared
already. I also noticed something when we were trying one exercise that involved
the dog making and holding eye contact with its handler. You do this to hold
their focus on you while they wait for the next command. Gunny was
very reluctant to hold eye contact at all…lots of blinking and looking down or off to the side, ducking his head like
he was afraid. In the dog world, holding eye contact with another dog is a challenge
and can escalate an already-bad situation. Gunny must have learned to try every
trick in the book to get those dogs to understand that he didn‘t want to fight with them. Poor baby, it made me so sad to see that glimpse of his old life.
At home he does look me in the eye, but we have never really worked on “holding” that eye contact while
he waits for an instruction or direction. My thought is that being in an unfamiliar,
stimulating environment like Petsmart ups the ante as well as the anxiety, even if the dog APPEARS to be relaxed or “doing
OK”. I have a feeling that Gunny will quickly get the concepts at home
and that will give him the confidence to trust that he can still do it out in public.
He is a very different personality than Oscar, and I think I will be learning a lot of new strategies for him. It’ll be a great learning opportunity for both of us.
Some
of the people in class had actually seen his story on the news or in the paper…they thought it was pretty cool to have
a celebrity in class!
6-25-08: A big thanks to everyone who was able to make it out to The Wine Vault for Gunny’s Meet and Greet last night!
There was a great turnout, and I heard from Beth that NMAR raised a bunch more money for Gunny’s vet bills. Fantastic!
It was really nice to meet some of you who have been following Gunny’s story. People came from all over, some just because
they had seen the article in The Charlotte Observer.
Gunny loved all of the attention, and did a fantastic job around all of the humans and dogs. He was actually over-tired
when we got home around 11pm. A bit like a kid who is long past due for a nap, but who continues to run around like a whirling
dervish. When he finally slowed down for a second, he realized he was pooped, and went to bed around midnight. Oscar woke
me up at 7AM to head outside----when he and I walked into the living room, Gunny halfway slid off of the couch to follow us---he
was so tired his eyes were just barely open the teeniest bit. I told him “It’s OK, if you don’t have to
go out, just go back to bed” and dang if he didn’t climb right back on the couch and pass out! I came back out
about an hour later to take him on a walk, and when we got back home, he ate his breakfast and went right to sleep in his
crate!
There was a brief clip on Channel 6 news at 11pm, and apparently they repeated it a few times this morning. The man who
filmed for them told me he was going to try to “pitch” the story to some people at the station and see if they
wanted to do a bigger piece on Gunny. Said he’d call if they went for the idea. Maybe you guys should email Channel
6 and tell them you want a bigger story on Gunny---maybe then they’d do it? I tried to find the story on their website
but had no luck.
There’s also another video on the Observer’s website. Knowing Terry and her advanced computer skills, I bet
she’ll have links up for you guys soon, if she doesn’t already!
6-23-08: The reporter from The Charlotte Observer called today. Everyone look for Gunny’s story in tomorrow’s
paper! They are still deciding which section…if it is in the “Local” section, it will be in everyone’s
paper. If it is in the “Neighborhood” section, some of you might miss it. However, she did say that it will be
online tomorrow as well. Sounds like they hope to have different pictures and a video clip to accompany the online story.
So, even if you see it in your morning paper, still go to The Observer’s website and check it out there too!
6-22-08: Big night out for Gunny! A friend was
needing some “get out of this house” time and we headed out to, of all places, The Wine Vault. Since going to there without a dog is just foreign to me, I decided it would be a good dry-run for ol’
Gunny, so I packed him into the car. Of course we were in the middle of a HORRIBLE
storm all the way there, and when it came time to get across the parking lot, Gunny was REALLY freaked out about all the rain. He did OK walking around the outside seating area, but when it came time to head in,
he was very unsure. But then he saw a yellow Lab sticking his head out the door
and he was willing to give it a shot. He and the Lab had a nice little visit,
and as has been the case thus far, Gunny was all wags and licks for the other dog. The
place was pretty full, and a bit loud, and this was only Gunny’s second “community outing”. He was pretty antsy and only wanted to be squashed up against me, or tucked in between furniture, at least
for the first 5 minutes. He slowly started to warm up, was happy about the attention
from the other people sitting in our area, and then found a nice spot to lay on the floor beside my chair. It gave him a good vantage point, kept him safe, but also made him very visible to passing traffic, and
just about everyone stopped to say hello. That was when he really figured out
that going “out on the town” was really a very fun idea. The manager
of the Vault recognized us as soon as we walked in the door, and made trips over to visit him, multiple times, cookies in
tow. He socialized with the rest of the staff as well, and by the end of the
evening, any time we walked by, I’d hear “GUNNY!!!!” collectively from the staff…remember Norm on
Cheers???
Gunny
came completely out of his shell in a very short time, and discovered that when there are multiple people sitting around an
area on large couches and individuals chairs, the best way to see them all is to stand on the centered coffee table and just
make the rounds! That was very funny to watch, but I did have to correct that
behavior regardless…didn’t figure it was a good one to encourage! He
eventually became comfortable enough to just circle the table, making his rounds, climbing on selected laps. All of the patrons got very good at guarding their glasses or bottles from that Pitbull tail as he circulated. I am proud to say, there were NO spills….at least not because Gunny! When the weather cleared, he made his rounds through the outside areas, and even tolerated leaving me to
go along with his Aunt Andrea. That was very good for him, as he is VERY attached,
and quite vocal when I leave. But last night, there was no “screaming”
and very little whimpering. His time with his Aunt gave me a lot of opportunities
to chat with people about Gunny’s story and his upcoming Meet and Greet. It
was a great chance to dispel a lot of the Pitbull Myths, as well as educate people on the horrors of dog fighting. Gunny was the perfect representative and the Living Proof that a lot of these people needed to see. I was happy to see that Oscar was not offended about being left home. He had been feeling a little under the weather the last day or so, and I thought an outing would be too
much for him. Plus, it sort of forced Gunny to stand on his own a little bit
in a new situation.
6-20-08:
Gunny has been doing very well. It’s now time for him to have more freedom
as far as exercise goes, and I remain optimistic that his remaining hind leg will function as needed and not let him down! He’s been having some pretty good wrestling sessions with Oscar, as well as
some pretty serious games of Keep Away From Oscar when he picks up a much-coveted toy!
Today
was a full day for both boys. First stop, Gunny had to go back for yet ANOTHER
vet visit. What the vet originally suspected was Staph infection had not gotten
any better and had, in fact, started to spread. Turns out our very sensitive
boy appears to have allergic dermatitis, with all this extra Yard Time really aggravating it.
So, we left the vet hospital with a topical steroid spray, some medicated shampoo, and instructions to finish out the
antibiotics and to “up” the amount of Benadryl he has already been taking.
Poor guy, I can’t wait for him to get off of all this junk he has had to take!
Everyone
at the vet was thrilled to see him and made a huge fuss, much to Oscar’s chagrin.
Oscar is quite familiar with being the Center of Attention, and although he did get a fair amount of attention, Gunny
was clearly in the spotlight. But Oscar is a good sport and held no grudges.
After
the vet, we headed up to see Oscar’s former trainer and Gunny’s soon-to-be trainer at Petsmart in Mooresville. Since Oscar won’t be able to attend Gunny’s classes, I wanted to show
off how well the boys are getting on together. I was looking forward to walking
into the store in Dog Whisperer Mode with “my” 2 Pitbulls heeling at my side like they do so often at home. Yea, right! Gunny was SO excited about
his first outing, there was no “heeling”….there was “hey, wow, look, COME ON, wow, look, COME ON,
look, WHAT IS TAKING YOU TWO SO LONG????” which made Oscar say “Um, if the new kid doesn’t have to listen,
are you really SURE that *I* need to???”. Needless to say, I more slid
or skied in behind my 125 pounds of Pitbull as I steered them towards the training area, as opposed to impressing anyone with
my skills! But hey, we ended up in the right department, didn’t take anyone
out, and I never let go, so that was good in my book. Always find the positives. Both boys were very well behaved for all the love and attention from the trainers
and staff, and happily sat around or napped while I chatted with our trainer for awhile.
They walked (relatively) calmly out of the training area when it was time to leave, and Gunny did a very good job while
touring the store. Everyone’s hearts did stop for about 2 seconds as I
left and this older gentleman’s 4-ish pound, shaved yet poofed up, decorated with bows, dog (??) bounded away from him
(gotta be hard to control that much dog, right?? heehee) and bounced right up to Oscar and Gunny. Neither Gunny nor Oscar seemed to have any idea what this creature was, and the look on their faces was
PRICELESS, but they did get a bit guarded. However, when I told them “boys,
friend” they relaxed. Told them “leave it” as the dog (???)
was jumping up in their faces trying to lick them. When the man finally reeled
in his rogue little attack dog, I gave both “my” boys a good pat and told them how brilliant they were. Our trainer had observed the whole thing and was calling encouragement from across the store “Good
boys Oscar and Gunny, good boys!!”
Our
last stop was lunch with a friend. Oscar is her buddy, even though she admits
to knowing nothing about dogs. She has been holding him for me in the past, when people approached to meet Oscar. It makes me laugh to know that her general response is “This is Oscar. Yes, he is Pitbull.
He is a fantastic dog…he even listens to ME and I don’t have any clue what I am doing!” Then she often goes on to recite his resume, including his works as a Therapy Dog. She’s a very good PR manager! Today she met Gunny for the first time. She came to my car to help
me with the boys, and her buddy Oscar walked calmly to the table with her and laid down in the shade beside her chair. He pretty much stayed there for a good 2 hours while we played “catch up”. Gunny tried very hard to follow Oscar’s lead, and he laid beside me for at least
75% of the time…he couldn’t quite pull it off when the waitress came and went though…he REALLY wanted to
convince her that she should like dogs! About 50% of the time, the boys would
position themselves side by side and I was so praying for some random photographer to come by an get a picture…shoppers
would come and go from place to place, look over and just beam with big smiles…these 2 big dogs were just so relaxed,
so happy to be near each other, just enjoying a nice day while the humans did whatever it is that humans do. Several people came up and asked to pet them, commenting on how well behaved they were and how friendly. Gunny got several laughs when I would get up to go inside for some reason, he’d
yowl and scream like someone was killing him…you could EASILY hear him inside the restaurant. I was mortified and the staff was laughing as I entered the building.
They told me he sounded just like a baby. Great! Got to put some work in before he can pull off the “separation” component on the Therapy Dog
evaluations, should he ever go for that!
6-14-08: Gunny had two very special visitors yesterday.
A reporter and a photographer from The Charlotte Observer came by the house in order to put together a story about
our guy’s journey! I’ll let you know when it is supposed to run in
the paper once they give me those details. Both the reporter and the photographer
were really impressed with The Little Man and what a great guy he is…of course he was a big ham, as were Oscar and Linc
The Cat. Mille and Tobbles kept a low profile, and they may be sorry, as the
reporter asked for spelling confirmation of Linc and Oscar’s names. Who
knows, maybe they’ll get some print too!
I
finally made a serious effort to contact the paper after we had a date for the Meet and Greet.
I figured that having the community turn out to see Gunny might just convince the paper to come. But once they heard his story up to this point, they were already on board and arranging to come out sooner. I thought they’d just show up at The Wine Vault and run the story later, but
I was wrong. Turns out that they
want to run the story BEFORE the Meet and Greet so that they can spread the word about Gunny and get more fans to come out! They mentioned hoping to raise more money for Gunny and the other NMAR dogs. I think that is really great of them to do.
Again, people are really impressing me as I go through this experience with our boy.
I’ve
never dealt with a newspaper before, and had no clue about this interview experience, but I tell you, it was really thorough.
The whole experience took about an hour and forty-five minutes! The reporter
wanted to hear more and more about Gunny, and his life here at the house, and the rescue’s program, and my background. Like I said, very thorough! The reporter
took a ton of pictures in a ton of settings, and even videotaped Gunny at play, Gunny with me, and a mini-interview with the
reporter. No idea how they will use that.
The reporter is trying to get quotes from everyone from the vets to the guests at Oscar’s Bday Party! I kid you not! So, to those of you who kept saying “somebody
needs to call the paper!”, you were right and it’s all taken care of! I
had no luck thus far with the TV news programs. Not any reply of any kind. Kind of disappointing. Maybe if the story
runs early enough in The Observer, we can email it to the news stations??? And
if several people do it, they might take note, huh? Worth a shot.
6-12-08: Better day for Gunny. Less pain medicine and no signs of discomfort. I guess I can say less drooling, although there is a good bit. But no more blood and the “yucky colored spit” is about 90% gone. The rehab walks continue, consistently without needing breaks.
I am continuing to be humbled and amazed by the community support Gunny is receiving.
We have gotten gift cards--with zero hesitation--from 2 out of 3 local grocery stores that I have approached. That will cover the cost of a cake for Gunny’s Meet and Greet. In addition, I just got off the phone with the assistant manager of the Mooresville Petsmart, where one
of my very favorite dog trainers now works. She was invaluable with Oscar as
he completed all of his obedience and clicker training and prepared for his Therapy Dogs evaluations. This manager agreed to donate a block of training classes with this trainer for Gunny! So, Gunny will be able to get started in 2 weeks! I can’t
wait for her to meet him…she is already working through her experiences with other dogs who have been missing a limb
and preparing to teach me accommodations for Gunny with basic positioning in standard obedience. As it has been with everyone, Gunny’s story has so impressed
her, and she can’t wait to help him in any way she can.
Wow,
people can do great and kind things, can’t they?
6-11-08: Poor guy had a rough time last evening. The drooling got MUCH
worse with much more “yuck” in it, and continued throughout the day today.
There are towels strategically placed all over this house in all the potential “settling down spots”, because
as soon as he rests his chin, there goes the mess. He also seemed really uncomfortable
yesterday evening, so I gave him extra pain medicine which made a world of difference.
I continued that for today as well, and he had a very good day. A drool-y
day, but a good day. He was able to eat his standard amounts, albeit a little
slowly. He did take longer than I would have liked to get around to drinking,
but he seems to have mastered that now as well. Until he was willing to drink,
I tried the ice cube route, and he has become a big fan of those now.
6-10-08: Gunny had his second surgery today. I dropped him off early this morning and he was back in my car by late afternoon. He’s a little bit groggy, and a little bit drool-y, but doing well.
His surgeon said that they made a big hole for drainage in his affected salivary gland, and stitched the opening back
so that it would hopefully STAY open now. The worry is that the body could scar
over the opening and we would be back where we started. So, lots of good thought
and prayers for success on this one please. It is a very rare occurrence/rare surgery and the outcome of this procedure is
2 out 3 seem to stay open. In the case where this procedure fails, there is another
procedure, but it is much more invasive and risky and doesn’t sound like something I’d want to put Gunny through. So, let’s all just agree that we won’t have to consider it at all, ever!!!
Thankfully, as soon as they opened him up, the drainage started and everything was on its way back to normal size. It was as they expected, big pockets of “old spit” in there, not a pretty
color, but not full of infection or any foreign materials. So that was good news. Now the poor guy is like a person who’s been to the oral surgeon….he’ll
cough and sputter a little and I have to come running with paper towels to wipe his mouth.
There is still a little blood coming out, but that is to be expected, per the vet.
Amazingly, he is allowed to have a little of his regular dry dog food tonight, and go back to a full serving tomorrow
morning if all stays down. The vet said that eating will stimulate salivation,
which will actually flush all of the “yuck” out even faster. So,
eating is to be encouraged! Gunny will be on pain medicine again, but just
for a few days. He will also be taking antibiotics, which would have been for
just a few days as well, EXCEPT….they believe that a reddened area on his chest is Staph infection. So, he’ll need to take the antibiotics for 2 weeks. Poor
guy is having a hard time catching a break with all of this medical stuff!
There are no follow-up visits needed, unless I feel like “stopping by” to visit…apparently there
is a new vet in the practice who has only been out of school for a year and she is having the chance to learn SO much just
from Gunny’s case. Everyone at the practice is so invested in seeing how
he comes along, and would be happy to have him stop by every so often to be “monitored“. For today’s surgery, there was even an intern from Mississippi visiting and he was able to “scrub
in” and watch this rare procedure/occurrence. And the vet with a year’s
experience was able to be the “2nd set of hands” for both the amputation and today’s surgery,
so she got a bird’s eye view as the surgeon took great care of little Gunny. I
told them today that Gunny is his own little Teaching Hospital packaged in a little Pitbull body!!! : )
Every
time he has to go in, at least one staff member will comment “wow, this guy is just amazing”. Boy, that doesn’t even come close. This little guy is
beyond words.
6-7-08: Gunny continues to go on his “rehab walks” and is now making it the entire
10 minute roundtrip without sitting in anyone’s daylilies! Now THAT is
progress! The heat makes it so much more of an effort for him and by the time
he gets back to the house, he is wiped out. He’s also coughing and gagging
a little bit when he is panting hard and then trying to drink some water. I am
blaming this all on the mass in his mouth and throat that he is trying to cope with.
Hopefully, after his surgery on Tuesday, he will not have so much to cope with.
We’ve
gotten to the point where Gunny and Oscar are able to go on the rehab walks together.
Oscar knows to slow down, and Gunny doesn’t try to race ahead. They
are a little excited as we start out, but by the halfway point, they are both heeling nicely, one Pitbull on each side of
me. For parts of the walk, I am even able to have them both heel on my left side,
walking calmly with only an inch or two between them. I have to admit, I feel
very Dog Whisperer-esque at those moments! The only problem with those times
is that Gunny has trouble not staggering a bit to keep his balance every so often, and will check Oscar into the boards now
and again. God bless Oscar, he just goes with the flow and opens up that 2”
distance into 2 feet, just to give Gunny some stagger room. When things are going
well and they are 2 inches apart, Oscar will look over and touch Gunny with his nose every so often, very gently. I am NOT the Dog Whisperer, so psychologically-speaking I don’t KNOW what that means in the dog world,
but I can tell you that based on Oscar’s body language when he does it, as well as Gunny’s response when it happens,
it “feels” like Oscar is saying “good job kid, stick with me” and Gunny is saying “aw, gee,
thanks man, I really am trying”. What good boys they both are!
BTW,
Gunny is looking FANTASTIC in his new collar from www.2houndsdesign.com!!
It
was so kind of Alisha to donate this for Gunny…her work is gorgeous and as an artist, she picked out the perfect color
and design that compliments him 200%. I love how artists can do that…they
“see” things that everyday people would never even THINK would work, and they nail it every time! THANKS ALISHA!
6-6-08: BAD NEWS!! Gunny needs more surgery. He will be going in on Tuesday morning to have work done on his out of control salivary
gland. It is absolutely ENORMOUS and is affecting how he swallows, manages his
food and water in his mouth, and controls his saliva. Basically he has something
the size of 1.5 tennis balls trying to fit under his tongue, which isn’t possible, so gravity also drops it down into
his neck or throat…not 100% sure where it goes except that it is a noticeable bulge not only under his tongue but also
in his neck area when you look at him. You’ll remember that this is a traumatic
injury resulting from being grabbed around the throat by all the other dogs as he was repeatedly attacked. Their jaws crushed his neck and throat enough that the ducts leading to his salivary glands were damaged,
and thus the saliva can’t move through the glands and ducts the way it should.
The
kicker is that we had planned to have this addressed when Gunny was under anesthesia for his amputation, but for some reason,
the swelling went away before the day of that surgery. No one really know why,
and gave credit to the pre-surgery antibiotics he was on. Unfortunately, the
swelling returned after the antibiotics were completed, and even though he was
started back on them, we have had no positive results. So, now surgery is the
only option.
The
vet says that he is not in pain per say, but is probably so amazingly irritated and uncomfortable in trying to cope with something
so large “wedged” where it shouldn’t be. What continues to
make this dog so amazing is that he shows no outward signs of being bothered. He
just takes it all in stride, giving no one any indication that this is making his life difficult. His ability to maintain a happy, positive attitude is humbling. Heck,
he didn’t even act sad or mad or depressed when he was dragging around a rotting, dead hind leg! I can’t speak for anyone else, but I know that *I* sure have a lot to learn about positive attitudes
from this dog!!!
So,
lots of thoughts and prayers for Gunny on Tuesday please. And as always, help
with the vet bills is greatly appreciated. Gunny has had a bunch of added “extras”
come up on top of the vet’s original surgery estimate. The rescue has really
been feeling the cost of vet care lately with all of the involved, intensive cases that have come through. Thank you for all of your support, in any way you choose to show it!
ALL of it is very much appreciated!
I hope that a lot of you will be able to make it to Gunny’s Meet and Greet on Tuesday, June 24th. There should be details up shortly about all the specifics.
link to Gunny's Meet & Greet

6-4-08: Today was the first day Gunny was allowed to go on a walk. This morning, we kept it to 5 minutes, even though we were allowed to try for 15 minutes. That went well, so this afternoon I went a little bit longer, planning on 10 minutes. Poor guy…at about 7 minutes, he pulled me over into the shade of a tree, into somebody’s garden
and just SAT in the middle of a big clump of daylilies! I’m sure the heat
didn’t help, but I think his leg was tired.
He
still has to be on a leash for yard time, so that he doesn’t blow out his remaining knee. The vet says at least 2 weeks of walks before he can be loose in the yard.
Gunny wants to play with Oscar REALLY badly, and will lay down in front of him and just bark and bark, this Big Boy
bark. I’m allowed to let them wrestle if Gunny is on a leash and if he
isn’t doing a lot of slamming or twisting. Mainly, Gunny is a grab and
chew kind of guy. I am watching him carefully, as his grabs and chews are pretty
animated and Oscar isn’t quite sure what to do about it, but I think Gunny is just trying to figure it all out. There is noting but happy wags and a good look in his eye. He didn’t know much about toys when he got here and it was really funny to watch him work through
it….like a young puppy discovering it all. I am getting the same feeling
about how he plays with Oscar. Like he just wants somebody to wrestle with him but isn’t sure how to go about asking….thus
the LOUD barking. Then when Oscar tries to pretend grab and chewy, Gunny goes
beyond that. I am hoping that Gunny will learn from Oscar to lighten up a little. The latest wrestling match lasted just a few minutes until I got their toys instead. Even after all that barking and animation, both boys are laying here beside me, about
12” between them, toys scattered around them. Last night, Gunny was doing
the Big Boy Bark at Millie The Face-Washing Cat, who just stared at him, and then earlier this evening, he did the same thing
to Linc The Cat. This barking was complete with Gunny in a “play stance”,
butt up in the air/chin on the floor, both times. See, like I said, he just doesn’t
get it and is trying to figure it out. I get the feeling there wasn’t a
lot of “playing” in his world, so he’s learning on the fly. Thus,
the reason he’s trying to get cats to wrestle with him!
We
are still having trouble with those salivary glands getting bigger as a result to the damage that was done when Gunny‘s
throat was crushed. The bad news is that it is looking more likely that Gunny will need to have MORE surgery to try to fix
this. The jury is still not in on that yet…none of us want him to endure
any surgery unless it is absolutely necessary and unless it has a really high potential for success!


Oscars Birthday Party Pictures
6-1-08:
Happy 3rd Birthday to Oscar! As is the case every year, Oscar had
a birthday party for His Pack, their humans, and a few more affiliated human
friends. This year the planning was all but nonexistent, as I had to wait and
see if I thought it was doable with Gunny in the mix. I didn’t want to
upset him, and wasn’t sure he was up for such a big event just yet. But,
so as not to disappoint good ol’ Oscar, I decided that with good management skills, I could work this out. That was one of the main reasons for getting Gunny together with some of The Pack members yesterday…so
that he wouldn’t be so overwhelmed today.
So,
with my plan in place, I was ready to go. But as with all plans, unexpected things
arise. After the first two groups of humans and first set of dogs arrived…Gunny
inside with the humans, dogs outside in the fence to play with Oscar…we got a surprise.
The missing Pack Member arrived, even though she usually doesn’t attend dog parties due to issues with another
female in the group. Her human’s plan was for her to hang out inside with
the humans and the cats, but she had forgotten about Gunny. So, Gunny is loose
in the house, snuggling up to his newest Aunt and Uncle, when he hears the front door open and someone call out “hello!!!!”. Off he goes to greet them and meets a new, loose, dog, who is as surprised to see
him as he is to see her. Remember, these guys share houses the ways humans share
clothes, so Oscar’s house is an extension of “her territory”. It
goes well, regardless…cautious but well. Next scene, a big ol’ jogging
baby stroller comes pushing through the front door, with a one year old child inside and an unfamiliar human driving. This didn’t slow Gunny down for a second.
He wanted to see what it, and the very small human, were all about. Even
when the baby’s dog started to get a little territorial, Gunny was fine, just stepped back and gave them room. As humans and dogs continued to arrive, Gunny and Sandi (the Missing pack Member)
hung out in the house with the humans, and Gunny really seemed to enjoy the time with the very teeny person who kept pointing
at him and saying “Dog!!”. Once or twice, Sandi, who is the oldest
member of our pack and who had to put Oscar in his place as a puppy, let out
a grumble/bark or two to let Gunny know that whatever he was doing was not appreciated. He
took the reprimands in stride, and went off to find a human to love on him.
When
all the humans migrated to the outside to play with the dogs. Gunny went to his crate and Sandi to Oscar’s crate. After awhile, Gunny’s lonely cries made The Group decide that we could try Gunny,
on a leash, at the actual dog party. So, cautiously, we did just that. He was a star, very willing to be friends with the other dogs but also willing to be submissive and back
off when told to do so. He continues to take his cues from me and has started
to seek out one of the other humans of The Pack as a source of comfort as well. Unfortunately
this is the owner of the High Energy Boy that I mentioned yesterday, which wasn’t received too well. At times, this guy was a bit of a grump, trying to be assertive, and we had to back him off several times,
but even with that, Gunny showed no thoughts of wanting to challenge anyone. In
fact, if any of the other dogs got vocal, Gunny tried very hard to blend into the woodwork and call zero attention to himself. It was the only time I saw him show any bit of trepidation. That was actually very hard to see, because it made it very easy to imagine what his life must have been
like before, and the things he tried to do, in vain, to stay safe around other dogs.
I guess the Up Side to this is that now, the humans that surround him keep him safe and reassure him if things get
frightening. Not only do we not allow him to be hurt, but we aren’t the
ones setting him up to be hurt, the way humans from his past obviously did. It
must take a little getting used to for him.
So,
it was a big day for Gunny. He wore a birthday hat and ate the (dog safe) cupcakes
and icing that I made for The Pack. He saw balloons and signs and listened to
music. He watched the other dogs get in and out of the Kiddie Pool, though he
was not willing to try himself. And actually, I’m glad he wasn’t
interested because I wouldn’t have let him in….too slippery. He hung out with a bunch of new humans and one brand
new dog. He impressed the heck out of everyone.
There continues to be talk of how “somebody” should get him on Oprah.
People speculated on all the ways to get his story out there for the world to hear.
Others commented on how inconceivable it was that he was so friendly and trusting after all he had been through. Many ran their hands over his scars and touched his incision and looked under his
tongue, and were sad. But Gunny wasn’t sad, don’t worry, those days
are behind him, God willing. Gunny really bonded with one of his newest Uncles,
and spent a ton of time with him, laying right at his feet. Every so often I’d
hear a comment about how amazing Gunny was or how much this guy liked Gunny. But
then I heard something very cool….something I had hoped I would hear from many people as Gunny’s story gets told. I heard this friend say, to no one in particular, just to the World At Large, “This
dog inspires me…I’m serious, I am so inspired…he has made me think and now things just look different in
my life.” Wow. Pretty cool,
huh?
Be
patient for pictures. There were several cameras in attendance, so there will
be some gathering and compiling I am sure. But hopefully soon there will be some
party pictures to share.
Happy
Birthday Oscar!!! I couldn’t do it without you buddy!!
5-31-08: Today, I decided that Gunny was ready to have some additional interaction with dogs. He is doing so well and looking so good, I wanted to continue to introduce him to
new dogs now, as opposed to waiting until he is off of “restrictions”. I
didn’t want so much time to go by where the only dog he would be around would be Oscar.
The more socializing, the better in my book….as long as it is done CORRECTLY!
So, the obvious answer would *appear* to be to start with Oscar’s Neighborhood Pack. There are several of us who have all become very good friends after moving into the neighborhood, and who
dogsit for each other, have frequent playdates, etc. All of these dogs share
houses and humans without any problem. We refer to all of our dogs collectively
as The Pack, or as Your Cousins when speaking directly to our dog. : )
The
downside to this is that these dogs have known each other a LONG time, with Oscar coming into the pack as a submissive 3 month
old pup, and the other dogs, as all dogs do, having personality quirks of their own.
With as bonded as all these guys already are as a group, accepting a new adult dog is not a guaranteed success. So, we set it up as best we could, with Oscar loose in the fenced yard as a buffer/distraction,
and Gunny on his leash as always, and the “new“ dog on a leash as well.
First, the owner of Oscar’s Best Wrestling Pal brought him over. This
dog is a high energy, dominant male, but things went well. Gunny obviously picked
up on those traits in this fellow, because he was very low key. He actually hung
back a little, and when he felt unsure, he would come lean on me or stand behind me or Oscar.
Even when the other guy growled a few times, sort of asserting his dominance and possibly his displeasure with not
being the center of attention, Gunny just backed off. Gunny didn’t show
any inkling of reacting aggressively…he was trying very hard to come off as submissive.
Next, we sent High Energy Boy home and two more dogs came by, both females this time.
One, a little more timid by nature, and the other very sociable but also a dominant personality. Gunny met each girl separately, and started out a little reserved but interested. The girls were fine with getting to know him, and within about a minute, Gunny was trying SO hard to get
them to play with him! It was adorable…no fear no aggression, just “woohoo, will you be my FRIEND??!?!” Truth be told, I think he has a crush on the Lab mix, though she was playing hard
to get. She even showed him her teeth at one point when he was getting on her nerves, and he wasn’t offended. After a few minutes, the heat seemed to get to them, and Gunny and the girls laid down on the patio in
the shade, all within a foot of each other. They were as relaxed and stretched
out as they could get. One neighbor commented “Yup, I think they are feeling
OK with Gunny joining The Pack…everybody seems good with this.” We
have one more female Pack Member to introduce when we have time, but I honestly expect that one to be a breeze.
You
know, I have heard and read so much about using another dog to get through to a new dog that has baggage or an involved history…using
one dog’s particular outlook or energy to influence the new dog. There
is no question that Gunny already had a fantastic mind and heart, but I really believe that in these times where things had
the potential to be stressful to Gunny---feeding times, favorite toys, new dogs---having Oscar around to model the desired
behavior has done more than any human ever could. Oscar is confident yet calm,
and very obedient to what a human is asking. Oscar looks to me for direction,
and trusts that I have it under control. Gunny has quickly learned that he can
do that do. But Oscar was the bridge that made it happen so quickly. Way to go Oscar!
5-29-08:
I borrowed the camera from Aunt Beth and got some more “after” pictures of Gunny as he continues to look better
and better. Maybe Aunt Kayla can add them to the Smilebox she made for him, or
use them when she is able to put together his “official” video. We
want to put together something that will include the good, the bad, and the ugly and tell his whole story. Currently, the more “advanced” computer at the rescue is ka-putt, so the video-making is on
hold. (please note the request on the home page for anyone’s old but useable
computer in return for a tax break!) But look for today’s photos somewhere, hopefully soon. Millie The Dog-Washing Cat even posed on the kitchen table above one of Gunny’s blankets, so you
can meet more of The Foster Family and see more Family Portraits.
Kona
came over today for another playdate with Oscar. Gunny did more visiting through
the fence, and there was tail-wagging right from the start this time. I halfway considered introducing them, but then realized
that Gunny just can’t stand up---literally---to Kona’s boisterous antics.
Gunny really makes a person forget that he is still recovering. He is
such a little Marine who just pushes on and stays strong. He just can’t
be around rowdy friends right now and risk hurting the surgery site or even blowing out his remaining hind leg, and it is
my job not to get sucked in by how well he acts for me.
For
any of you Gunny fans out there, we could still use your support. As Gunny’s
care continues, I am working hard to keep him from being bored and from fixating on his leg.
A lot of that involves borrowing toys from his very patient and kind Foster
Brother Oscar, but there are only so many to go around. It also involves food
bribes for medicine and crate time. So, if you’d like to send Gunny a care
package of toys and treats, please email us and we will get you a mailing address for your package or you can arrange to stop
by the facility and drop it off for Gunny. Gunny is an equal-opportunity toy
tester…he loves Kongs and Nylabones just as much as squeaky toys and Jolly Balls.
Treats to dogs are like chocolate to women…there is no wrong kind! Except
for rawhides, they can be dangerous to dogs, so we don’t feed those.
Thank
you so much for all of the support you have provided to Gunny and the rescue…although I have said it before, it can’t
be said too much…you guys have been amazing. Unfortunately, the rescue
got kicked in the teeth today with a MASSIVE vet bill for an INSANE amount of medical hardships lately, Gunny included. If you know of anyone who might want to pitch in a dollar or two in honor of Gunny,
it would allow the rescue to do more “amazing saves” like they did with this special soul and the other dogs who
needed all that vet care. I’m sure it’s mentioned other places on
the site, but if you happen to be an/happen to know an animal-loving Bank of America employee, NMAR is an approved charity,
and any amount you donate will be matched 100% by BOA. How fantastic is it that
The Bank does that? That just blows me away….good for them!
Thanks
everyone…I didn’t mean for today’s update to sound like a begging platform!
It just happened to be what’s going on around here today, so I wanted to share the Whole Story.
5-28-08: Gunny is having a little trouble with the new pain medicine
schedule. He is starting to show some signs of nerve-related pain that the higher
levels of medicine were apparently addressing. We had an option to try a different
medicine, that is actually a human medicine which targets nerve issues, but the vet ultimately decided to go back to a larger
amount of his current pain medicine. We will go with the new dosage, which is
still much less than what he had immediately after surgery, for another week. Then
the following week we will cut it back to the schedule and dosage we were trying when the nerve pain became apparent. If at any time this doesn’t address his needs, he will go in for another vet
visit, with a related prescription call in to a human pharmacy. Hopefully that
won’t be necessary, so good thought for Gunny please!
Otherwise,
he is doing well. He is getting very tired of being on restricted activity, and
he and Oscar continue to attempt to play in the “don’t let Mom hear” approach! I feel very badly breaking up their fun, but with too much motion, Gunny can still basically rip apart
all of the muscles that are meshing together INSIDE of the remaining portion of his leg.
Avoiding that is WAY worth disappointing him a little bit re: playtime!
5-26-08: Gunny had a busy Memorial
Day Weekend. More visits from various neighbors, plus his Aunt Laurel came to
see how much he has changed. Laurel was the catalyst in Operation Save Poor Gunny…she
was the one who received the original email from the pound and who contacted me to see if NMAR could help in any way. She was also the first one to meet Gunny, which led to her going out on a limb and
saying, “I am telling you, this dog deserves a shot and we can pull this off.”
As I told her yesterday when she was leaving, “good call Laurel!!”.
She was so excited to see all of the progress he has made and to watch him with Oscar and His Band of Goofy Felines. They are a funny bunch.
Today
Kona came over for a playdate with Oscar. Please take a minute and read about
Kona on the Adoption page, under Adopt-A-Bull. He is a very special, absolutely
FANTASTIC dog who has lost out on a family of his own multiple times, through no fault of his own. Anyway, he came over for one of his weekly visits, and while he was out in the fence with Oscar, I brought
Gunny around on the outside of the fence to see what he thought. The only dog
he has seen, aside from those in the vet’s lobby, is Oscar. Kona has a
very different approach to life than Oscar. Kona is wide-open. He is sort of like a runaway elephant or a freight train…a very joyful freight train. When he saw me at the fence with Gunny, he came BARRELING over, just so very excited to meet a new friend,
all wiggles and wags. Gunny was nervous, there was no wagging…I think he
was very glad that the fence was there to save him from being steam-rolled! But
after Gunny figured out that Kona’s intentions were good, and that Oscar and I approved of this overgrown puppy, he
got on board with the whole event. Just like when he met Oscar…lots of
sniffing and snorting through the fence slats, and serious tail wagging.
Oscar
and Gunny like to lay beside me while I work on the computer. Last night, they
were about 6 inches apart, and Gunny gave a really good stretch and ended up with his nose leaning on Oscar’s back. It was one of those times I wished I had a camera within arm’s reach! Kind of like tonight when Gunny sat beside my chair while Oscar rolled around on his back right under Gunny’s
watchful eye. Oscar really wanted to play and took both of his front paws and
put them on Gunny face, very gently, and sort of batted him around a little bit, egging him on with little play noises. Gunny fell right into it, “talking” back to Oscar, wagging his tail, and
bumping Oscar’s paws with his snout. Even if things look like they might
get a little too active for what Gunny is allowed, all I do is quietly remind Oscar “take it easy buddy, you can’t
be rough with him” and Oscar just KNOWS. It really is incredible the way
he will do the smallest thing, and Gunny seems to understand that he needs to calm down.
It’s been really amazing to watch these guys.
5-24-08: Gunny is still doing great. Aunt Beth and Aunt Kayla came over today
to take some pictures of his progress, as well as to get some Group Photos with the now-famous Oscar, and Linc The Cat. Hope you like them.
Nothing
too major happening, which is great. He had a booster shot today, and of course
didn’t even acknowledge that there was a needle involved. He is taking
slightly less pain medicine and is handling it well. He may be off of it completely
in just a matter of days, depending on how he does. The lump under his neck is
almost gone, again, and the one under his tongue is smaller but still noticeable. Family
life continues to go smoothly with lots of interaction between all of the critters involved.
Millie is getting much closer to starting the face licking with Gunny, but it has been a random lick here and there,
not a full-out bath yet. Linc The Cat has started to introduce Gunny to the many
varieties of the “Hey, I‘ve got your tail“ game that he plays with Oscar…a tail wags and Linc The
Cat launches himself onto the tail and holds it in his front paws while he gnaws on it.
Or, he pounces repeatedly on the tail of the sleeping dog as it twitches throughout a dream. He has also been known
to dive off furniture, grab Oscar’s tail while Oscar is standing nearby, and proceed to slide down the tail like a fireman
on a fire pole. Oscar is, of course, fine with all of this but I’m monitoring
Gunny and letting him get used to the antics slowly. Linc The Cat has gotten
overly excited before and chomped down pretty hard on Oscar’s tail, which I think would be an unfair challenge to ol’
Gunny….for now anyway.
5-22-08: Funny story. I have been very cautious and taking nothing for granted with all the animal interactions
in the house, especially with food. I started out by feeding Gunny in his crate while Oscar ate in the kitchen.
That progressed to Gunny being tied to the table while Oscar ate at the far end of the room. The wild card has always
been Linc The Cat, who, in fitting with his dog persona, enjoys eating dog food. Oscar tolerates him sitting
about 2 centimeters from the dog bowl, staring intently, while Oscar eats. Linc will often grab a quick piece
of food when Oscar raises his head to breathe or swallow. Though Oscar and Linc have an understanding about
all of this, and Oscar could not be less bothered about sharing with Linc, I wasn’t so sure Gunny would
sign on for the deal. Thus, while Gunny eats, I monitor Linc The Cat, who has been VERY intriqued by a different
brand of dog food than Oscar’s norm. This AM, I had Gunny tied to the coffee table as I watched the news
and ate my breakfast before work. Oscar had already eaten his breakfast in the kitchen. Gunny stopped
eating after finishing half of his meal, and laid down and relaxed. His bowl was about 12” from his face.
Oscar came in and laid down, facing Gunny. Both dogs had their heads resting on their paws, their faces about 3
feet from each other, no issues. Oscar was obviously hoping to sample the novel dog food, but was too polite
to help himself. Gunny didn’t take offense that Oscar was so close…and well within the range of his
leash length, by the way. I took a moment to feel very proud of both boys and went back to watching the
news. Next thing I know, I hear “crunch crunch crunch” and my heart stopped. I whipped my head
around and saw Linc The Cat, sitting at the edge of Gunny’s bowl, snacking away. Remember, the proximity
of the bowl would put Linc within 12” of Gunny’s mouth, at the MOST. God Bless Gunny….I reached
over and scooped up Linc, but in all actuality, if Gunny had had any problems with the situation, it would have
been too late for Linc. Even as I tossed Linc aside, Gunny never even picked up his head from his paws…he
just sort of raised an eyebrow, as if he was wondering what had gotten into ME for me to jump up so fast so early
in the morning.
5-21-08: Gunny had another check-up at the vet today. They lasered the incision from his amputation, again, and
were able to remove the staples already…wow! Unfortunately the big lumps under his tongue and under his chin have
returned. So, he is back on antibiotics, again, for four weeks this time. Not sure if I have mentioned it before,
but these lumps were a result of being grabbed by the throat by a dog. The ducts connected with his salivary glands
were crushed when that dog (dogs???) crushed Gunny’s throat in its powerful jaws. This leaves the saliva no place
to go. On top of that disruption, these areas have also become infected. Once the infection is gone, he may or may not
still struggle with recurrences when the saliva backs up. If this keeps happening, the only options are microsurgery
or just waiting for the glands to die off. When that happens, the problem will go away. Thankfully there are many
salivary glands, so some will pick up the slack from the lost ones. It was amazing to me to see him head into the vet’s
clinic…you’d think he was going into a Gourmet Bakery For Dogs, not the place where they cut off one of his limbs!
He was so excited to see EVERYONE and ANYONE and all I could hear from the treatment areas where variations of “GUNNY!!!!!!
You look so HANDSOME!!! We are so glad to see you!” all delivered in baby-talk. He has also gained 4 pounds
since his surgery! He looks better and better every day! The vet said we were able to switch him from puppy food to
adult food. The puppy food was to give him more nutrition as we brought him back from starvation. He looks
so good now, adult food is the way to go. Even though the staples are out, he is still restricted to very limited activity
for another 2 weeks or so. He stays in the crate or is on a leash to encourage him to lay down in the house.
His walks are only for going to the potty in the yard, nothing more than a lap around the fenced in yard. After
2 more weeks, the activity can increase a bit and the vet was able to give me some guidelines for the progression of
his rehab. We are trying to protect the ligaments of the knee in his remaining hind leg, as it is now taking so
much more of a burden. So, all went well. Many thanks for all of the support!
Some sweet person sent us this poem today from Gunny!
Thanks you!
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